How to limit losses in your life? Your 12th House, has the answer!

???? How to Limit Losses in your Life?! 12th House has the answer! 

Let’s talk about 12th house- the house of Losses! Sounds scary! But we can limit losses if we consciously give a sacrifice or selfless service as per our 12th house. 

Appoint a regularly but affordable act/amount/ service and instead of unforeseen losses and disappointments you express the 12th house energy as conscious act of sacrifice- you can control and plan the energy, rather than experiencing it as a crushing and out of control loss! 

Find the sign in your 12th house and see where its ruler is. 

If your 12th house ruler is in the 1st house-
 
Consciously give away some of your physical energy/ strength and actual physical presence to others or those in need- volunteering, donating blood, any selfless charity actions will help you preserve the involuntary leaking out of your vitality and health. Do anonymous acts of kindness/ sacrifice. Learn to consciously decouple your sense of self from your body- the more attached you are to your body, physical strength, appearance and external looks, the more you can loose these. If you feel yourself a spiritual being having a physical experience and sacrifice your ego and personal interests to a bigger purpose, you will turn this position into a goldmine of blessings. 

If ruler of your 12th house is in the 2nd,
That is an indication for extra spending or financial losses, but if you consciously choose to donate or help others with food, clothes, money or other material resources, you will avoid and minimize unwanted financial losses. Even simple things like feeding friends or animals is a good remedy. Learn to let go of attachment to things, possessions and money- the more attached you are, the more material losses you will have. An easy way for that would be to regularly clear your unused possessions, clothes and give them away, hoarding is a big no no! Learn to consciously sacrifice some comforts and pleasures on the senses- this will stop your expenses. 

If ruler of your 12th house is in the 3rd, it is great remedy to donate or gift books, share skills for free within others selflessly, help your neighbors/ siblings/ relatives without expectations of returns or favors. This way you prevent disappointments/ problems or losses through these people and wasting of skills. Maybe give free rides to someone who needs, so you don’t have losses through vehicles or short trips.

If ruler of 12th is in your 4th house- you might have losses/disappointments through /in  family, real estate, property. To minimize unwanted losses, do selfless help for family members, donate furniture, shelter someone who needs a place to stay, for awhile or volunteer to help someone build a house/ do home project. Help struggling moms. Give up your country/ place of origin and move away. 

If the ruler of your 12th house is in the 5th house- support selflessly friends when they have a heart break, donate to child or educational charities (5th house), support the arts- like your local theater or ballet troupe, teach arts for free or gift your own creations (for example: knitting baby hats and gifting them to hospitals, making cards and giving them away, etc) this way you minimize losses / disappointment through romantic partners, children or creative pursuits. 

If ruler of your 12th house is in the 6th house- take care of homeless animals or feed them, volunteer to help someone sick, to maintain and clean some space/nature, to participate in any ministries of service, help someone find work…..this way you minimize your own health karma, disappointments/losses through work, employees, enemies. Forgive your enemies and you will not suffer losses through them. 

If ruler of your 12th house is in the natal 7th house- you might suffer losses/ disappointments through business partnerships, relationships or peers. To minimize that karma- consciously help others who have marriage problems, sacrifice willingly something for your partner’s well being without holding it over them, make sure you are always honest and direct with others(spouse, partner) so you don’t get lied or misled by others yourself.
Choose to decouple gracefully and consciously, rather than cling to relationships that have outlived their role in your life. Then you will start attracting better and better relationships. 

If ruler or your 12th house is in the natal 8th, if you don’t want to suffer losses/ disappointments through loans, mutual finances, inheritances, other people’s money, partner’s money, taxes, then consciously appoint some amount to give when someone asks you for a loan - but don’t expect it back- consider it a donation / sacrifice, it can still come back to you, but if you really don’t hold it over the other, you will not have bigger losses through others, especially through criminal or predatory activity (8th house). Also donate or do selfless act of service to someone who has suffered abuse or trauma. Offer support to those that are transitioning in any way- divorce, big loss, dying, scare etc. such people are natural psychologist that people in difficulty turn to with their secrets and heartfelt problems. 

Ruler of 12th in 9th house- to minimize losses/ disappointments through missed/ unrealistic opportunities/ goals, one should share knowledge and wisdom (9th house) unconditionally for free (of course, don’t force unsolicited advice). Help people with moral / spiritual dilemmas, legal issues or help foreigners. Guide others gently when help is asked. You can help someone with their higher education or existential / philosophical worries. Give hope and show the way for free. Always speak the truth (9th house) or else you can incur losses and expenses (12th). 

Ruler of 12th in 10th house- to minimize losses/ disappointments in career and in your public reputation, when you do any good, do it anonymously rather than publicly. Even if you are a boss, try and serve those below you, rather than putting yourself above. It is especially dangerous to appropriate other’s accomplishments as your own and not give them credit- this can lead to a big karmic crash in your social status. If possible- your career should be in more charitable fields, if not make sure you do acts of conscious service. 
Choose to consciously let go of a career path which is selfish or does not serve your ideals. 

Ruler of 12th in 11th house. In order to minimize losses of friendships and disappointments through social circle and business (11th) , choose to consciously sacrifice some acts of service to some from your acquaintances/friends- as an act of grace, without expecting it back. 
Of course don’t become a martyr or door mat for your friends- that’s why instead you choose to consciously do an act of your own choosing and preference to help someone from your social circle. Better yet, choose a social cause or group activity and contribute to it-- for example join an altruistic club/ organization- but don’t do it for the opportunities or networking, but with genuine intention to help. 

Choose to consciously let go of friends who have outlived their purpose, or the universe will separate you by force. 

Ruler of 12th in 12th house. 

This is very powerful 12th house, actually you are naturally good at releasing the past, you are naturally spiritual and connected to invisible realities and not so attached to the material. You have natural talent for visualization, imagination, tapping into the invisible realms, strong intuition. Acts of charity, kindness and sacrifice should be normal part of your life- or less losses of any sort become a big part of your life. 

You should spend time alone contemplating and resting or in a relaxed state, because you receive your biggest insights and inflow of inspiration in these moments. Not giving yourself these alone rests can lead to mental health problems or psychic leaks and losses on other levels. It is very important that you sleep well! 

I love looking at all houses through the lense of their most important work and how it is best done through its ruler! I cover all houses and their rulers in my 60+ hrs course on Houses! 
 

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