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The position of the Black Moon in a birth chart shows the dark side of one’s personality, a side that exists in every person, even if each one manifests it with her own nuances. This is the side of a personality that will inevitably lead the person to her downfall if she feeds it and indulges in it. It contains the temptations lurking at a deep level in our subconscious, as well as our attraction for reprehensible actions, on a moral as well as on an ethically level, all of which that can eventually lead to the destruction of our personality. Lilith is not capable of bringing us happiness, as she is not able to trigger real-life events as the real planets do; her impact is exerted on the psyche, on our passions and on the deepest of our desires. The Black Moon generates an astral vortex that arouse emotions and strong desires, blurring awareness and preventing us from controlling or regulating its influence.
The position of Lilith in our horoscope also shows what type of people, amongst those we meet on our path, will play provocative roles in our lives, or even be our enemies. All these roles are meant to help us in our evolution, which is why it is much better not to hold grudges against the people who have to play them. They are imposed to them in spite of their own will and it is better for us to focus on the negative manifestations of Lilith in our own psyche as well as on its effects on our own behavior, according to her position in our horoscope. If these negative events are understood and if the necessary efforts are made, no further provocation will frighten us. Lilith is also associated with the worst human sin, suicide, which is probably the extreme consequence of all passions when they are pursued relentlessly. But the choice still belongs to the individual, and Lilith is powerless against the will of a person who sees her for what she is and decides to oppose her.
LILITH IN ARIES
The person feels that she is a pioneer in everything she does and asserts her personality at the expense of others. She can be aggressive when people defined by her as passive do not wish to follow her ''generous and unselfish'' impulses, even though she is in fact making sure not to let anyone get ahead of her, putting her own priorities forward. The person can go as far as to step on the heads of others and crush those who stand in her way. Her behavior is unpredictable and she believes everything to be allowed to her. She may have excessive activity, a strong sensuality and show cruelty as well as a tendency to be excessively demonstrative.
The provocative roles are played by employees and male peers.
LILITH IN TAURUS
A frugal person can become stingy, a gourmand turn into a glutton and a natural desire to earn a living can degenerate into greed. The person is trying to maintain control over everything within her reach and also feels satisfaction when someone is financially dependent of her. She repays her debts with much difficulty and hates her creditors. She shows an excessive attachment to material goods and pleasures as well as a desire to own everything. She has a passionate character, but a tendency towards inertia and laziness.
The provocative roles are played by female counterparts, as well as by persons related to the visual arts and material values.
Lilith in GEMINI
The person has a voice of God complex, where she considers that everything she says is of great value, that the information she provides is always accurate, and that her advices are always needed and wanted. In her delusion, everybody is hanging to her lips and is just waiting for her to give the opinion that will dot the i's and solve all problems. She often demonstrates irresponsibility, dishonesty, talkativeness, superficiality, nervousness, and a tendency towards intrigue, lies, gossips and denunciation. She is tempted by intellectual and material theft.
The provocative roles are played by friends, acquaintances, brothers and sisters, students or teachers
Lilith in CANCER
The person demands exclusive personal relationships and very specific conditions in her domestic life, playing the role of a fragile creature, miserable and oppressed, simply unable to care for herself without the help of others. This can also be manifested by a desire to make other people feel miserable and oppressed themselves, by a desire to play with the subtleties of emotional experiences, always pushing others towards honesty and confidence. The person tends to be anxious, fickle and intrusive, depending on her mood and circumstances.
The provocative roles are played by the immediate family as well as by older women; by both parents but more often by the mother
Lilith in LEO
The person enjoys giving praise to the object of her love and the fruits of her labor, but she requires a similar attitude towards her from people for whom she does not feel a strong passion. She behaves like a narcissistic poseur, self-centered and ambitious, abusing her power, an attitude that emanates from an exaggerated sense of the importance of her presence in the world. The person may also boast, show arrogance and have a tendency to take too much on herself. She is possessed by a frequent desire to give lessons and does not like children. She tends to play the game of the love slave or to impose this role on her partner.
The provocative roles are played by brilliant and remarkable people, perhaps children
Lillith in Virgo
Lilith in Virgo makes a person petty, vindictive and dependent on the powerful people of this world. Such a person manipulates others by playing on their sense of duty and responsibility, aiming to develop or feed a complex of guilt in them. The person is emotionally vulnerable to the impact of conflicts and therefore tries to act properly in every moment and every place, keeping from breaking rules and laws, a strategy which allows her to avoid confrontation and thus to hide the inner storm of emotions that assails her. She also tends to over-indulge in critical self-analysis. She can show greed, a tendency to quarrel, cynicism, callousness, an exaggerated sense of formalities, pedantry and may tend to act like a square. She often plays the role of a white, fragile and innocent creature.
The provocative roles are played by co-workers as well as managers, foremen or supervisors of all kinds
Lillith in LIBRA
The person sincerely believes that to frequent her is in itself a great honor for others. She is possessed by a strong sense of elitism, considering her own feelings as being of a very high value, and that even though she herself can be unreliable and is constantly fluctuating, not having an opinion of her own. Uncertainty, affected manners, duality, the inability to act independently as well as a constant need to sort things out and to judge others are all traits that can be noticed in such a person. Her sensuality can become salacious. This is a person who often acts as if she was a member of high society.
The provocative roles are played by partners and allies
Lilith in Scorpio
The person tries to compel others to satisfy her exacerbated desires by bringing the emotional climate to its breaking point, because the peaceful solution simply never seems to interest her. She has an unconscious tendency to manipulate others just for pleasure, using her strength and power. She has a penchant for thrills, for excess when judging other people's character and for making scenes. She shows sensuality in her instincts, an attraction for magic and for the occult and a weakness for vices. She can act as a cunning manipulator, nasty and terrible.
The provocative roles are played by people of artistic or dangerous occupations, as well as by occultists of all kind.
Lilith in Sagitarrius
In the person’s opinion, the whole world is only waiting to kneel before her greatness and only aspires to receive spiritual food from her hands. Being absolutely certain of her huge organizational skills and of her infallible authority, such a person believes that she simply cannot make mistakes, because mistakes are the lot of mortals, not gods. She tends to oppress those who oppose her authority or threaten her sphere of influence. The person may be unpredictable, rapacious, she may have a penchant for shocking behaviors as well as for adventurism and conspiracies involving a large number of people. She claims the role of a leader, of a Grand Master and of a Messiah and easily falls into megalomania.
The provocative roles are played by false ideological and religious leaders, as well as by experimentalists and originals
Lillith in Capricorn
The person believes that nothing is beyond her capabilities and that she does not need anyone’s help or support. But she does see herself as the master of others' destiny, convinced that she is that they need her patronage. She feels the need to test her strong character and her power and chooses the most difficult paths to reach her objectives, thus seeking to prove herself how strong her personality really is, as if she had to undergo a divine test and ready to go as far as self-destruction. Coldness, a repressed sensuality, an excessive rationality, an exacerbated spirit of competition and the tendency to achieve her goals through pressure are all possible traits of hers. In a similar way, she may tend to see herself as a Superman.
The provocative roles are played by older men, hierarchical superiors, and possibly by her father.
Lilith in Aquarius
The person aspires to total and absolute freedom, ignoring and disregarding real circumstances, any prohibition having for her the effect of a red cape waved before a bull. Her sensuality manifests in an anarchic way. She is in a constant search for something new, unusual, stirring and has a strong need to smash everything and to put everything upside down, starting with formalities. She shows irresponsibility, carelessness and lack of reliability, she loses her sense of proportions and tends to exaggerate her own importance and authority. She deliberately ignores the principles of morality and betrays her friends. This is a person who likes to plays the role of a dissident.
The provocative roles are played by friends and influential sponsors
Lilith in Pisces
The person does not distinguish between dream and reality and believes in things of her own invention, existing only in her fantasies. She obsessively clings to her ideas, even manically so, and imposes them to her entourage as revelations, as great truths. She has a talent for conspiracy and is able to hide her true intentions, to create illusions, to deceive, to charm, to throw dust into people's eyes and to reach her goals through subterfuge. This is a person who can show inconsistency, a penchant for hysteria, a tendency to complicate and confuse, and a strong interest in the dark side of life and secret vices. She often acts like a sage or a prophet.
The provocative roles are played by people who may seem indispensable
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